Why You Should Read the Boston Girl

The Boston Girl Book Review

Every once in a while, I run across a book that I can't stop reading it. So much so I will walk blindly on the DC metro and trip into people because I just can't put it down.

The Boston Girl is the story of a grandmother telling her grand daughter about her life growing up in Boston during the early 1900s as an immigrant. You can get the full review of The Boston Girl here.

It is told in a narrative


I absolutely love books told from this perspective. It really reads as a story that you can easily imagine your own grandmother telling you this story.

Addie is the woman we all want to be


Addie Baum, the main character, is an girl who excelled in average situations. It is not overly embellished for dramatic flair. Addie is a charming, lovable, relateable character in this coming-to-age story.

It covers a variety of tough topics while still being light-hearted


So many issues are covered in this book -- education for women, illegal abortion, WWI , the flu epidemic, PTSD, prohibition, voting rights for women, women against lynching, child labor, orphan trains, women in the work place. None of the topics feel too glossed over nor do they derail the main story to focus on a particular issue.

It made me think


If I were in Addie's situation, having a granddaughter interview me about my life. How would I tell it, what have I done of note, and how did I get to become the woman I am today?
"How did I get to be the woman I am today?" It started in that library, in the reading club. That's where I started to be my own person.

If you're looking for a great read to sit out and read, I suggest picking this up. Even if you're not a fan of historical fiction, like me, it's a great change that you'll enjoy. I promise you!

Why You Should Read the Boston Girl

Lastly, I am going on vacation next week! It keeps sneaking up on me and because of that, I haven't had time to schedule out posts for the time that I'll be gone, April 8th - April 15th. For this time, I would love to open up my blog for some guest posts. If you have a post that you would like to submit to be on my blog, please fill out the form below! I am accepting old posts or brand new posts as long as it aligns with my content. Happy Humpday!

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Rosé Noir Cocktail

Boy, could I go for one of these right about now.

Rosé Noir - The Perfect Spring Cocktail that's refreshing but packs a punch!

If you're from DC, or have been to DC in the Springtime you'll know that it's Cherry Blossom time. I love Cherry Blossoms. They tell me when it really is Springtime. No groundhog predictions for me. As much as I love them, I dislike how many tourists come. The metro last week and this week have been packed with clueless tourists who slow down my entire commute. Now that I work in the District, it's pretty impossible to avoid them. My boyfriend and I did however go to a Cherry Blossom wine and beer festival this past Saturday but that's as close as I'm getting to the Tidal Basin. For now, I'll just admire the Magnolias that are all over the dog park that Starla and I visit frequently.

Rosé Noir - The Perfect Spring Cocktail that's refreshing but packs a punch!

At the wine and beer festival, naturally I gravitated more towards the wine than the beer. I was loving anything sparkling. Well...I kind of always enjoy sparkling but the fact that it was sunny and warm outside, I was really enjoying sparkling. Now, I can't stop! So today, I bring you a new favorite drink of mine, the Rosé Noir.

This drink is super refreshing like a spritzer but packs more of a punch!

Rosé Noir - The Perfect Spring Cocktail that's refreshing but packs a punch!

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Hope you enjoy this refreshing cocktail outside on a patio and in good weather! What's your favorite cocktail for Spring?


Rosé Noir - The Perfect Spring Cocktail that is refreshing and kicks a punch!
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Useful Tricks I've Taught My Dog

Starla has been loving this warm weather! I've been loving it too. I get to do so many more activities with her, we help each other get in shape, and she gets to be outside and be social.

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I'm very luck to have adopted a dog that has a very calm temperament and is good with pretty much everyone except for those naughty cats. However, I've definitely taught Starla a few tricks that help her keep calm in public situations.

Related Post: Why You Should Adopt an Older Dog


The best tricks I've taught my dog have been: leave it, go back, and wait. I know these are a bit uncommon, but other dog owners might use the same commands but in different words.

Leave it


I think most people have heard of this. Leave it is as simple as "drop it" or to just ignore it. Honestly, this trick is pretty easy to learn but a lot harder to master for dogs. Check out this Victoria Stilwell video to show how to learn the trick. I think most positive reinforcement training teaches this trick this way. P.S. Victoria Stilwell is a great resource for all dog owners! This trick has been especially useful when walking Starla down busy city streets. It's shocking how disgusting people can be. We have a wing restaurant at the end of our block and I've found half eaten wings littered all over the place! Gross. Starla always lunges towards them but if I give her a stern "leave it," command, she usually drops it.

Useful Dog Tricks

Go Back


I started to teach this trick to Starla when she would rush the door to go out for her walks. It wasn't so bad when I lived in a house but now that I'm in an apartment with a long hallway, if she rushes out the door there's a pretty high chance that she'll run into someone. I've taught her to back away from the door and wait for me to give her a release command before heading out the door. This is also useful when we're walking outside and we need to stop at curbs for the light to change. She's a puller and walks a bit ahead of me (I know! I should break this habit but this is the one thing that she's been extra stubborn on). So when we get up to a curb we need to stop at, I can tell her to go back behind me when we wait for the lights to change.

Wait


Wait is just like stay. For whatever reason, I started saying wait and she picked up on it more than stay. Probably because I talk to Starla like a human and you'd never ask another human to "stay". It is a great technique especially when you're out in public with your dog. I've had to ask her to "wait" at curbs for lights, I've asked her to wait while I was paying for produce at my local farmer's market, etc. It's also helpful to start using a hand command. Starla responds more to vocal cues than visual cues but I'm training her to respond equally to them. Some trainers use the same hand cues for all dogs for consistency but again, I just decided to make up my own hand signal and it's worked for us. We do a jedi-like hand wave for wait and she's learning to pick up on that as "wait."

I think one of the biggest tests of her temperament was when I took her to Barktoberfest this past year. Not only was it filled with tons of dogs, it was crowded with people (some sober, some very drunk), there were tons of food that was dropped on the ground, and spilled beer.

Barktoberfest

All of these tricks were definitely important to use while we were out because there were times that I had to hook her to my belt because I needed both hands and told her to wait so she wouldn't rip my belt off chasing another dog. I had to tell her to go back on numerous instances when it was too crowded. I definitely had to use our leave it command for lots of dropped food or spilled beer. She performed amazingly well!

My last trick is less for dogs than it is for other humans. As owners we have to teach others the tricks for our dogs. My roommate and my boyfriend frequently watch my dog, and I've taught them all the commands that Starla knows so that they can can use them appropriately. Starla is also pretty sneaky and way too smart for her own good, so she'll definitely try to get away with murder and play dumb when she knows I'm not around. All these tricks are very important when you have someone else watch your dog. Even if it's as simple as getting a dog walker to help you our during the day while you're at work.

Useful Dog Tricks You Can Teach Your Dog! Some of these can even save their lives.

What are the most useful tricks that you've taught your dog?


All opinions provided are strictly anecdotal. Just because they have worked for me does not mean that they will work for your dog. Please consult a veterinarian or your dog trainer for personalized results. 

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Being Brave and Taking the Next Step

It's funny. I love sharing with you all. I enjoy it and I enjoy that you take the time to read and comment. Then this happens and I can't get myself to write this post.

I had a drunken moment the other night with my boyfriend, obviously emotions were high and out of control but I admitted it. I'm scared.

I've never been a girl who doesn't do things for fear. I might avoid gymnastics because I don't feel like breaking my neck or I might avoid skiing because I don't like bruising my tail bone but that won't stop me from trying it once. I might take be wary of taking the first step towards a new job but I'll muster up my courage and do it in the end. I honestly can't think of one situation that I said I would do something and in the end backed out because I was afraid of the situation. Fear is not something to be afraid of. Fear is something to confront and demolish. I've felt this way for a while.

Except, I am fearful. I just ignore it and don't recognize it until drunken moments while walking my dog at 1 a.m. in the dark with my boyfriend.

Big changes are happening in my life and all because I've made the decision to do so. No one is forcing me, no one is asking me, I am the instigator of these changes. And I'm so worried. But it's happening and I'm making it happen. There's no backing-out.

The bad news is that I didn't get into the grad schools that I wanted to. I got wait-listed from my top choice school and denied from my second. It was pretty devastating but it was a moment where I really had to reflect on what I've done and what got me to that situation. I didn't try hard enough. I didn't study enough. I didn't prepare myself enough. But there's always next time.

Here's the thing with expectations: you prepare yourself and then when they don't go as planned you find yourself a bit lost. I prepared for leaving my wonderful city of DC where I've called home for over ten years now. I prepared saying bye to hour-drives to my parents house. I prepared for lots of skype and facetime calls instead of happy hours and dinners. So what happens now, when all my preparations fall to the wayside?

I've decided to take my preparations and make use of them anyways. Just because grad school said no, it doesn't mean I have to say no to a change in my life that I so dearly need.

I'm off for an adventure and grad school applications can wait until I can afford them the right amount of time and commitment they deserve. I'm off to make a change for my life that is terrifying, scary, nerve-wracking, and most of all exciting.

Chicago
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Fun Matte Lipsticks for Spring

Four Fun Spring Lipsticks

I've been talking about it here and there, and it's because I can't wait anymore! I'm so excited for Spring. Last week was lovely with highs in the 60s and 70s and it was so great to get out and enjoy some fresh air without having to bundle up in 20 layers of clothing. To celebrate the fact that the seasons are changing, I've been adding more Spring colors to my everyday. I've been experimenting here and there with making bolder statements with my lip shades and Spring is the perfect time do to that.

Some blogger friends and I have teamed up to share our favorite Spring beauty picks for Spring. Below are my picks for lipsticks for Spring.

Spring Lipsticks

Revlon HD Devotion


Revlon HD Devotion Review

The lipstick is avery balm-like when you first apply it but feels very lightweight due to the gel technology used in the lipstick. You think it would look very glossy but it is a semi-matte finish. It has a bit of a satin-y shine to it but are better than regular matte that I find can make my lips appear chapped. It applies very smoothly but be careful during application because it can slip. This lipstick is great because it last through light snacking and drinking! My favorite part about it is that they have a nice berry scent. The Devotion shade is the perfect shade for my lips because it is a "pink nude" so is casual enough for a laid-back day but can also look great dressing it up. It's a shade that looks great on everyone.

Revlon HD Addiction


Revlon Ultra HD Addiction Review

This is my new favorite color. It's a berry (which are my typical go-to colors) that looks great with everything. I've worn it on all occasions and this shade can honestly be worn into the Summer and even Fall too! All of the Revlon Ultra HD lip colors are around $7.99 and can be found in any drug store.

NYX Lip Cream in Buenos Aires


NYX Buenos Aires Review

When I first got this lip cream, I really loved it but the more and more I've tried it up until publishing this post, my love has diminished. The shade is great and exactly why I am still suggesting it for you. However, the consistency of this lip cream is a bit frustrating. You definitely need a lip liner, and it takes about four coats to cover adequately. Take it or leave it, but I still love the shade. Any lipsticks that you like that are similar?

NYX Lip Cream in Addis Ababa


NYX Addis Ababa Review

The most playful of the bunch! This shade is a beautiful bright pink shade without being too wild. Unlike Buenos Aires, it goes on very well and stays on your lips for a full work day. The NYX lip creams don't smell as great as the Revlon but they do smell good. For a girl who has an olive skin tone like me, this pink is for you!

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I also want to say that this was a fun post idea inspired from the Blog Passion Project for collaboration. I've worked with a great group of bloggers who have also teamed up to share with you some Spring make-up and style looks. Now, go check out Jenn @ Hello Rigby for her Spring make-up look, visit Becca @ Fit Foodnista, Jenny @ Breakfast at Lilly's for her Spring wishlist, and Jen from Boone and Owl for her easy Spring make-up look.


What is your favorite shade to wear in the warmer months?


Four Fun Spring Lipsticks


Shop the look: NYX Lip Creams, Revlon Ultra HD Matte LipColor

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The Last Five and The Next Five

The Last Five Years

How many times have you been asked what your five-year plan is? How many times did you have a well thought out answer for that question? If you had more than one time, well congratulations to you. I don't think I've ever had one confident time where I've concocted a five-year plan that will actually fall in place.

If you asked me five years ago what my five year plan was, I'm sure it would go something along these lines:
In five years, I plan to be in a good job in sales & marketing. I will have been promoted at least once. I'll be happily living in the District of Colombia with my current boyfriend and we'll do lots of fancy things in the city. I'll be traveling, for work and for pleasure, frequently. I'll have a puppy and have had Lasik.

All of these lofty dreams I had thought about and wanted to be true. At twenty, that was honestly the idea I had of myself.

The next five years haven't held true to that dream. I did adopt a dog, which subsequently broke the Lasik dream because dogs are expensive! I continued for a solid 12-months in my sales leasing associate job before realizing that selling apartments on the regular is just not for me. I'm not a person who can honestly convince someone to sign up for something they don't want.

I realized that actually living in the city wasn't for me, and that Arlington, right outside of DC, is the much better option.

I broke up with my boyfriend at the time, or rather I should say, we let the relationship fall by the wayside.

Now here I am, two jobs, two boyfriends, and five different apartments later. I wonder if I'm going to be as "off" on my predictions for the next five years and I was last time. I hope that the little bit of adulting and growing up I've done has given me a bit more solid forecast on my future.

I've been thinking about the future a lot recently and how there's so much that's uncertain. How much my "plan" will really work out, or how much I'm fooling myself.

20-year old Alanna was pretty clueless, and 25-year old Alanna is just a little less clueless. But only time will tell.

The Last Five Years

Five years ago, where did you think you'd be? Did you end up there?

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Perfect Spring Day at Paradise Springs Winery

Okay, I know it's not really Springtime yet, but with 65 degree days, I'm saying it's Spring. Not only have I been dying in this cold weather but so has Starla. She's been so pent up without being able to go on long walks, hikes, or even just having the patio door open for her to hang out on. I am so excited to get her out more often for some patio brunches, long hikes, and even just walks around the city. A weekend ago, I took advantage of the gorgeous weather to take the little monster out to a winery.

Paradise Springs Winery

Since I live out in Arlington, it's a hike to get over to where the majority of the winerys are around Purcellville. I'll stop by out there when I visit my parents, but for a quick trip with Starla, I opted for something a bit closer to home.

We opted to go to Paradise Springs winery in Clifton near Fairfax which is only about 30-40 minutes away instead of an hour or longer. I've been there once before for a friend's birthday where we got to do a tasting for 10 but it was a lot colder and we were unfortunately stuck downstairs in the room where they do all the fermentation instead of the beautiful tasting room.

This time was completely different, Paradise Springs winery has a huge open yard space with tons of picnic tables. They even have a back patio with a live band. Of course, about 200 other people had the same idea to go to the winery that Sunday so we couldn't get the patio space but we scooped out a picnic table right in the sun and were set! Starla was enjoying sitting up on the table bench with us.

Paradise Springs Winery Starla

For whatever reason, this entire winter I've been turned off from reds. I've been opting for oaky whites. My poor boyfriend usually indulges me however I know he prefers red. So we compromised and tried the Cab Franc and the Melange. Honestly, I liked the Cab Franc better. It was a super smooth wine and in contrast to the Melange which really took some time to open up. Then, my boyfriend was sneaky and ran inside to buy a bottle of Sommet Blanc for us to take home. That was of course, my favorite out of the three.

Paradise Springs winery

Overall, it was a great day trip to enjoy the weather. My boyfriend and I decided that next time we go we definitely wanted to bring a frisbee or a game to play because there was just so much space in the lawn. We'll definitely be back.

Paradise Springs Winery. 13219 Yates Ford Rd, Clifton, VA 20124

What kind of wines do you like to drink? 


Paradise Springs Winery Review
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To Read or Not To Read: Looking for Alaska

Reading Flops

Don't get me wrong, I am a fan of Young Adult books. For the most part.

Looking For Alaska Review


I loved The Fault in Our Stars and Paper Towns so when I heard that John Green had another award winning book I was pretty excited. So I bought Looking for Alaska off Amazon and waited for it to arrive at my apartment. Once I started to read it my first impression was, "Wait, this isn't about Alaska?" It takes place in Alabama.

Anyways, I kept reading and realized the characters are kind of the same as other John Green novels. The main character is a boy who is nerdy in a cool way. A girl, the love interest, is mysterious, hot, and emotionally unstable. Then there was the onslaught of sex, underage drinking, underage smoking, ridiculous nicknames, and outrageous situations. Like having a library in your dorm room? When I got to the "After" section of the book I was just going through the motions; counting pages, skipping whole paragraphs that seemed unimportant and screaming internally at my book. They took so long to figure out the great mystery of the incident that didn't seem plausible for a group of teenagers who are supposed to be smart.

I understand this book was written to discuss loss, moving on, and growing up. Instead it focused on drinking, smoking, and sex. I just don't know how they dragged it out to be so long.

And that, boys and girls, is the story of why I've only read one books this month. I give it 2/5 stars because I don't think it was terribly written, it was just very predictable and the characters weren't very relateable or likeable.


Any popular snoozers that you've read lately I should take off my list?



What I'm Currently Reading


The Boston Girl by Anita Diamant
The Memory Keeper's Daughter by Kim Edwards for the Beyond Words Book Club

My Reading Challenge Updates


Total Books this month: 1
Total Books read this year: 3/35
Total Books Read for the Modern Mrs. Darcy Challenge: 2 / 12




Today, I have teamed up with some awesome bloggers to bring to you a great giveaway! We're giving away a $300 Target Gift Card to one lucky winner! Complete as many tasks as you can to up your chances of winning! The giveaway starts on Monday, March 14th and runs until Saturday, March 26th. The winner will be contacted on Sunday, March 27th. All entries will be verified. Please enter fairly and have fun!

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Why I Love Blogging (even with my pet peeves)

I shared this tweet last week. I was honestly in a grumpy mood and felt like kvetching so I did.



I shouldn't be surprised but I was surprised by how much traction it got. Handfuls of bloggers agreed and shared similar feelings about how blogging has "lost it's soul," so-to-say.

I'll just link to Lindsay's and Lexi's posts because they hit the nail on what I had to say. (If you really want to hear it from my own keyboard you can read my comments on their posts.)

I hate being so negative about something I care for so much so I wanted to share why I absolutely, 100% love blogging.

Blogging keeps me occupied


I started this blog because I had some extra free time that I was sick of spending scrolling through my Netflix feed, watching endless SVU episodes, or knitting. I wanted something that would challenge me. And boy, has blogging done that.

Blogging challenges me to do things out of my comfort zone


When has a hobby challenged you to go outside of your comfort zone? Knitting? I think not. I honestly have never bought blush, contoured my face, used hot rollers on my hair, set up a tripod, bought a $500+ camera, forced myself to go to Walmart to buy a ingredient for a recipe I've never made before blogging. These are only a few of the many things blogging has opened my eyes to. I don't have to do these things if I don't want to, but having a reason to try something crazy and new is refreshing.

My readers and followers are my community and it's real!


Ok this is something you've probably heard before about blogging. I never really understood it until these past 6 or so months. My consistent followers who truly comment because they connect with me make my community. Many of you I consider friends! I shared this post on my Instagram last week and I also shared it on my personal Facebook.

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The amount of thoughtful and concerned comments brought a tear to my eyes. Even people who aren't familiar with the reason behind it (cough, applying to grad schools, cough) many of you took the time to wish me a happy Friday or send good vibes my way. Now here's the same post on my Facebook. Look at the stark difference in interaction! Wouldn't you think my personal friends who I see and spend time with in person would have been more concerned? It was eye opening, shocking, and heart warming all at the same time.

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P.S. Love you guys.

There are many other small reasons why I love blogging but these three are hands-down at the top of the list.

Why I Love Blogging

Why do you love blogging? What are your pet peeves about blogging recently?

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Songs to Keep You Pumped at the Gym

 

Songs to Keep You Pumped at the Gym

If you know me, you'll know that I'm almost always listening to music. Walking Starla, going to work, at work, while I blog, while I shower, and of course while I work out. It keeps me motivated, energized, and pumped up. But I always listen to different music for different times. For going to the gym, I can always kick it up a notch with a nice mix of pop, hip hop, and rock. Here's the top few songs that always help me push it to the next level at the gym.

Get Ugly by Jason Derulo

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Genghis Khan by Miike Snow

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Middle by DJ Snake

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Bang My Head by David Guetta featuring Sia and Fetty Wap

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Roses by Chainsmokers.

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Be Right There by Diplo

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What songs do you like to listen to that keep you pumped up while working out?


 

 

Songs to Keep You Pumped at the Gym
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Chocolate Blueberry & Almond Bark

This shop has been compensated by Collective Bias, Inc. and its advertiser. All opinions are mine alone. #LoveDoveFruits #CollectiveBias


So how are those resolutions going? I don't know about you, but I've definitely backed off from a couple and kept others going (but just not as strong). One of my big resolutions this year was to stop drinking weeknight wine. So far I've been moderately successful. There have been the couple flukes like company happy hours and long nights where I've spoiled myself with just a glass. On those days that I am being good and sticking to my resolution, my sweet tooth is out of control! I crave all types of chocolates or sweets after dinner. To combat this, I've developed an easy recipe that can satisfy my sweet tooth without breaking the calorie bank.

Dove Fruit and Nut Chocolate Bark Recipe

This chocolate bark has the wellness benefits of dark chocolate yet are sweetened with honey instead of sugars and are filled with delicious fruits and nuts too!

For this recipe, you need only 4 basic ingredients for this recipe. Start with unsweetened chocolate baking bars at 100% cacao, DOVE® Dark Chocolate Blueberry & Vanilla Cashew, DOVE® Roasted Almonds covered in Dark Chocolate, and honey.

You know how I'm a fan of quick, simple recipes, right? This will be one of the easiest I've shared. All you need to do is melt the baking chocolate in a medium-size pan over very low heat until it's smooth. You'll then remove from heat and add the honey . Stir in the DOVE® Roasted Almonds covered in Dark Chocolate and DOVE® Dark Chocolate Blueberry & Vanilla Cashew. DOVE also has other awesome options you can use like DOVE® Dark Chocolate Raspberry & Honey Roasted Almond or DOVE® Dark Chocolate Strawberry & Cocoa Almond but I opted for the almond, cashew, and blueberries because those were my favorite mix.

Dove Fruit and Nut Chocolate Bark

Next, you'll line a baking sheet with parchment paper and pour in the mixture quickly before the chocolate cools. With the back of a rubber spatula, spread out and flatten the chocolate. You don't want it too thick since this is just a quick snack, so about a quarter inch is the desired thickness.

Dove Fruit and Nut Chocolate Bark Mixture

Place the baking sheet in the fridge and let it harden for the next 2 hours. Then you can break up the chocolate and enjoy!

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Dove Fruit and Nut Chocolates at Walmart #LoveDoveFruits #Ad

Pick up DOVE® Chocolate Fruit & Nut the next time you're at Walmart! You can find them in a special display in the store this month but at any other time, you can find it in the candy aisle. Don't forget to use a coupon or check out the Dove Social Hub for other great recipes.

Dove Fruit and Nut Chocolate Bark Recipe

How do you like to treat yourself while still being "good"?

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Being in a Relationship as a Dog Owner

 

Being in a Relationship as a Dog Owner

Being a dog owner is one of the most rewarding journeys I've embarked on in my twenties so far. Dogs are curious, needy, loving, and so much more. I adopted Starla when I was in my last relationship. Being single and dating, and now being in a new relationship is so much different now that I'm a dog owner. Here's how:

After-work happy hours are a thing of the past


Isn't that nice to just stay a bit late after work and hang out with co-workers? Nope. You'll have to run home to take your pup out. And after saying hi and taking them out, who wants to leave that sad face to go drink with people you just spent eight hours with?

Bodily Functions aren't off-limits


Usually there's some unspoken rule about never talking about any sort of bodily functions before the six month mark (or later for some!) But as a dog-owner farts, drool, vomit and poop is an every day occurrence. So talking about it it is obviously going to happen. The first time my boyfriend watched Starla, I was checking up to make sure that she pooped during every walk.

Starla

There's no such thing as adorable cuddling


Well, I guess there is. Just not with your significant other! The picture says it all.

Off the Leash Dog Cuddling

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You have a new title...Mom


You are now a dog Mom or Dad. Even if you don't want to, you'll be referred to as "Starla's Mom" and that will be your only name to some. My boyfriend definitely refers to me in the third person as "Starla's Mom". For example, when he comes over and she's ignoring me but super excited to see him, he starts talking to her like, "Has Mom been ignoring you?" You'll also learn that your significant other has a pretty darn cute baby/dog voice.

Acts of service will start being the most important way that you appreciate love


Waking up at 6 a.m. to walk the dog with you, Picking up your dog from your apartment when you have to stay late at work, volunteering to take your dog along on a hike, and even just being the doggy bag handler for the day will mean the world to you. Much more important than any bouquet of flowers.

Being in a Relationship as a Dog Owner

How has your relationship changed as a result of being a dog owner?

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Humpday Confessions - This is it + Reader Survey

Welcome to Humpday Confessions, where on Wednesdays we confess!

I confess...


That I have some big news for all of you confessors. I'm not one to be a ghoster, all though it would be simpler at times. I am going to end my reign of co-hosting Humpday Confessions with Sarah. I've decided that I really want to narrow my niche of my blog and focus on things that are most important to me (FOOD! DC! DRINKS!). Since I am working on trying to focus my site a bit more, I would love if you could fill out my reader survey to help me out a bit.

Paradise Springs Winery

In addition to that, it's been really hard to keep up with this link-up considering that I typically write the post the day before. If you know me just a little bit you know that I'm a crazy planner and usually have posts scheduled out weeks in advance.

Of course, you will still be able to link-up over at Sarah's site and you may see me around a couple times here and there to join in on the fun. Thank you so much for participating!



I confess that the waiting thing for grad school is killing me. It's basically the only thing I've been able to think about this week. If I get an acceptance "contingent on interview" notification, I may just die.

I confess that the Snapchat faceswap filter is terrifying and hilarious at the same time. I was crying laughing the other day at this Buzzfeed article. Want to see mine? Here it is in all it's glory. Also, you should just follow me on Snapchat (alannaandco) for more ridiculous ones.

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I confess that I splurged and bought myself a 50 mm lens for my DSLR in addition to a camera bag insert that I can throw into my Stella and Dot tote. So ready to test it out this weekend. I'm taking my camera everywhere.

I confess that I ran two miles on Monday and I'm still sore. It's a problem.

I confess that I've realized that Starla is a much better model than either me or my boyfriend. Do you think she can model my Stitchfix reviews going forward? I'm going to try.

Starla

 




Now onto the link-up with Plucky in Love and I!

Here are the ground rules for the link-up:


  • Each Wednesday create a post about what’s going on in your life and confess!

  • Grab the button and include it in your post or include a text link back to the link-up.

  • Link up with Sarah, so we can see what you're confessing this week.

  • Comment on at least one other blogger’s post from the link up.

  • Feel free to share on social media with the hashtag #HumpdayConfessions and I'll retweet.

  • Enjoy!


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Linking up with #HashtagHumpday





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Six Must-Have Apps for the City Girl

Must Have Apps for the City Girl

Being a city girl isn’t always easy, the rents are high, the crowds are crazy and sometimes it’s impossible to find a cab. Luckily, in this age of technology there are many apps that can make your life a little easier. Here are my must have apps that you should totally download, if you haven't already!

Uber/Lyft


I actually haven't tried Lyft yet and prefer to go for Uber but it's a necessity in the city. If you're traveling during normal hours, walking outside and hailing a cab is pretty easy. However, early mornings or late nights, Uber is a life-saver for getting around. It's cheap too!

Surge Protector


With Uber, you definitely need to watch out for those surge prices. I've definitely fallen victim to a surge price that I didn't think was too bad and ended up with a $50 ride charge. With this app, it will find you locations near you that don't have a surge. Super important for busy nights out.

Spotluck


Spotluck is my new go to after Yelp. So many times, I've searched endlessly on Yelp to find a restaurant, decided on one only to find it's a bust! Spotluck has a great collection of awesome local restaurants. Spotluck works kind of like roulette. You just give Spotluck a spin and it'll give you a restaurant recommendation near you. Only in DC (for now!)

Popular Pays


It's always a great day when you can leverage your blog. Popular Pays works with companies to get you some simple sponsored opportunities. They started only with local companies and Instagram, but have now opened opportunities for full blog posts and national brands!

Starbucks 


I was totally behind on downloading this app but it's saved my behind a few times now. You can order and pay for your favorite drinks and food. Get this, you can finally order ahead and pick up your drink without waiting in line! The first time, I used it, I was so nervous about just going to the bar and grabbing my drink. But there it was waiting for me! Super convenient!

The Skimm


Okay, okay this isn't really an app. It's an email subscription, but it's the best. So much better than the free newspapers that you can grab before you hop onto the metro train. Since there is absolutely no service on over half of the DC metro, it's great that the Skimm emails me every morning before I hop onto the train. When I'm commuting in I can read up on all the important news in small, sassy chunks.

Must Have Apps for the City Girl - Alanna & Company

 

What are your favorite apps to use in the city?

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