Date Night Make-Up for the Make-up Newbie

By no stretch am I a pro at make-up. On an average day, I don't even wear make-up. So this year has been a crazy transition for me because I actually got an Ulta frequent shopper card (GASP!), I spent over $30 on one piece of make-up, and it wasn't drug store. Guys, round of applause for me. Well...fine. At least I'm proud of myself. I honestly have to give the props to all of my followers who are beauty bloggers. Shout out to Jen from Hello Rigby, Chelsie from Hey, There Chelsie, Jasmine from CS&S blog, Lindsay from Bourbon, Lipsticks and Stillettos, and Jaelan from Making Mrs. M just to name a few! So with my new found courage and confidence, I wanted to share with you my go-to look for date night.

I like to keep it really simple, so these are literally the only products that I use for my face for this look. No, no filling eyebrows (if you don't want to), no crazy liquid make-up blending, and no eye shadow! I know you make-up pros are all gasping in shock, but honestly, I have the hardest issue with eye shadow. I can't blend it, I can never figure out which shades go where, and why are there so many damn brushes for the smallest area of your face?

Date Night Make-Up Products

The products I used are the Smashbox contour kit (in medium/dark), Nars Orgasm Blush, L'Oreal True Match in Sun Beige, Lorac Pro Mascara, Lorac eyeliner in brown, and my Elf brushes.

Start with a moisturized, clean face. Apply the L'Oreal foundation. I found that it's key to moisturize or put primer on before hand for this powder foundation to apply evenly and stay! Now move onto the contour kit. I only use the highlight and the contour, not the bronzer. Sidebar, this kit wasn't totally worth it ($45) because the highlight isn't the best (I'd like some shimmer) and my CVS Milani bronzer works better than this bronzer. Rookie mistake. Start with the contour and contour your cheeks and the sides of your nose. If you haven't contoured before, you can take a peek at the cheat sheet on the contour kit above or check out this awesome resource.

Date Night Make-up Nars Orgasm

In place of bronzer, I use my Nars Orgasm blush. Everything you've heard of this miracle product is true. It really does work on all skin tones. From Lindsay's fair skin to my tan olive skin. It looks great on both of us! For the winter time, I often get pretty flushed coming in and out from cold weather, so I keep the blush light. If you're trying a more dramatic version of this look, try this.

Related Post: Less is More Make-up Routine


Then off to the highlight. Highlight the "V" between your eyebrows, the middle of your nose, and right above where you applied the blush. Now, blend your whole face to make sure you are streaky. Ta-da, cheeks and face done. Now just the eyes are left.

Date Night Make-Up Eye Products

Yeah, I know I should have plucked my eyebrows before I took these photos. It was an impromptu shoot, so don't judge me.

For the eyeliner apply in short strokes. I pull the side of my eye to help create an easy wing. Keeping the strokes short assures that I don't go overboard on how thick the line is or how far I draw out my eyeliner wing. I usually wing my eyeliner but keep it simple and small like this. I also like to stick with the brown eyeliner because it's a softer look for a date that compliments my eye color. Going out at night, I'll switch it up to my black gel eyeliner. Lastly, curl your eyelashes and apply mascara.

Viola! You're done.

Date Night Make-Up Tutorial

I love this look because it's simple and quick to apply. It accentuates my natural beauty instead of masking it and your significant others will love it too! I also want to thank you for getting through this whole tutorial. It took a lot for me to get the courage to do a post like this and I hope I can share more "make-up newbie" tips or even some step-by-step tutorials with you in the future. I hope you like the look too!

Do you like to keep it simple on date nights or really spruce it up? What's your biggest make-up challenge?

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Strawberry Lemon Shortcakes

If you are anything like me, you are already planning ahead. And did you know that Easter is pretty early this year? I am already planning my Easter brunch menu - which might sound crazy since you don't really know who I am. Hi, I’m Kristyn and I recently started a food blog called Dash of Herbs. You might be thinking, how can you already be planning your Easter brunch menu? Because I am a planner through and through. Sometimes things don't go as planned, but sometimes they are exactly what you were wanting them to be.

Strawberry Lemon Shortcakes Recipe from Dash of Herbs - Plan a great meal for Easter

If you are trying to lose weight like I am, you might not know that you can eat those delicious brunch foods without going crazy. I decided to join Weight Watchers and with that came cooking more. Dash of Herbs is the brainchild of my Weight Watchers journey and my new love of cooking. You can find simple, easy recipes that any type of cook can throw together, and they are so easy to make - like these Feta and Veggie Frittatas.

For my Easter brunch menu this year, I am planning on making a few things. Below is part of my menu for Easter 2016:

  1. Turkey Sausage and Spinach Quiche - These are great because you can make them ahead of time and then just pop them in the oven the morning of Easter.

  2. Slow Cooker Apple Cranberry Oatmeal - For the on-the-go family, this is the easiest thing you can make. Put this on when you go to bed and when you wake up, the oatmeal is ready to eat.

  3. If you have any late sleepers like we do, this chicken salad recipe is great for them. Brunch doesn't have to be just breakfast foods...think about a few lighter lunch options for your menu.

  4. One of my newest favorites (and a husband approved appetizer) is my homemade roasted garlic hummus with flatbread. It's great to have after you stuff your faces with all the yummy brunch stuff you make.


Strawberry Lemon Shortcakes Recipe from Dash of Herbs - Plan a great meal for Easter

Now, one thing to not forget is dessert. And since you have done so well keeping all your brunch food healthy, dessert should be no different. Exclusive to Alanna and Company readers, you get to try the Strawberry Lemon Shortcakes for yourself before it's even posted on my blog! Just remember that Easter brunch (which for us is normally flooded with cheese, butter, and other naughty things) doesn't mean you can't enjoy yourself and eat healthy.

Strawberry Lemon Shortcakes



Author: Dash of Herbs

Prep time:

Cook time:

Total time:

Serves: 8

According to the Weight Watchers Recipe Builder, this recipe is 5 SmartPoints per serving, 1 shortcake, 1/4 cup whipped cream mixture, and strawberries.



Ingredients


  • 1 cup all-purpose flour

  • 1/4 cup quick-cooking oats

  • 1 1/2 t baking powder

  • 1/4 t baking soda

  • 1/8 t salt

  • 2 T light butter

  • 1 egg

  • 3 T Almond-Milk, or other low-fat milk

  • 2 T honey

  • 2 T plain fat-free yogurt

  • 2 t lemon zest

  • fat free cool whip

  • 1 cup strawberries, sliced




Instructions



  1. Preheat oven to 400 degrees.


To Prepare the Shortcakes:


  1. In a large bowl, mix together the flour, oats, baking powder, baking soda, and salt.

  2. In a small bowl (I used a ramekin), melt the 2 T butter and pour the melted butter in with the flour mixture.

  3. In another bowl, beat the egg. Stir in the milk, honey, yogurt, and lemon zest. Add the egg mixture to the flour mixture and mix to combine.

  4. Spoon 8 dough balls onto a prepared cookie sheet. Bake for about 10 minutes, until golden brown. Let cool on a wire rack.


To Prepare the Whipped Cream:


  1. In a small bowl, mix together 1 T honey, the remaining yogurt and fat free cool whip.


Assemble Your Strawberry Shortcake:


  1. Cut a shortcake in half. Add some of the whipped cream mixture. Add the fresh strawberries to the top and enjoy.




 strawberry-lemon-shortcakes recipe dash of herbs

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Humpday Confessions - I Can't

Welcome to Humpday Confessions, where on Wednesdays we confess!

I confess...


I haven't done a themed Humpday Confessions post in a while!



I can't even believe that furry nails is a trend that is coming into style.

I can't even believe Trump is leading in any sort of polls anywhere. #Stophim



I can't even believe that people actually think Samoas are better than Thin Mints. #nope



Ok I caved and got some @girlscouts cookies. I mean, sometimes Monday's need a little thin mint help.


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I can't even with all these celebrity beefs. Can't we all just get along? 

I can't even believe the fact that celebrity beefs are mainstream news. Really? Isn't there something better we can talk about?

I can't even believe that everyone is still talking about Netflix And chill. It was kind of funny the first time we heard it (I think? Right?), but the Internet and then media quickly wore it down, fast and hard. Let's stop tweeting about it, please. 

I can't even when people complain about their jobs and don't do anything to change their own situation

I can't even with people say that the job market or the dating market in DC is bad. #NotTrue

All right I need to stop with this basic girl stuff and get back to something more productive. 








Now onto the link-up with Plucky in Love and I!


Here are the ground rules for the link-up:


  • Each Wednesday create a post about what’s going on in your life and confess!

  • Grab the button and include it in your post or include a text link back to the link-up.

  • Link up with either me or Sarah, so we can see what you're confessing this week.

  • Comment on at least one other blogger’s post from the link up.

  • Feel free to share on social media with the hashtag #HumpdayConfessions and I'll retweet.

  • Enjoy!


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6 life hacks that are actually useful (and work!)

6 life hacks Anchored to Sunshine

Happy Monday! I’m Amanda from Anchored to Sunshine, a DC based lifestyle blog, and am taking over Alanna and Co. today!

Over on Anchored to Sunshine I blog about anything and everything that happens in a 20-something year old girl’s (woman’s?) world. From book recommendations, new recipes, fitness tips, and of course life, I share it all!

So today I figured I would give you some of the best of the best life hacks I've come across in my day! These 6 life hacks are actually ones I use on a regular basis. My tried and true!

Get new flowers?
Nothing makes me happier than a bouquet of flowers. Nothing makes me sadder than a bouquet of dead flowers just days later. Adding sugar, vodka, or a penny to the water can help extend their life. Sorry if you didn’t know this before your Valentine’s Day flowers died :( there is always next year!

Have a sore throat?
This life hack is not only effective, but delicious! Eating marshmallows is the perfect sore throat remedy. In fact, it was their original purpose :)

Need green onions?
Never buy green onion again, you can regrow them in just a glass of water!

Have an upset tummy?
Have too much pizza and beer? Causing a bit of unwanted stomach acid? Sleep on your left side so your stomach is below your esophagus and it will help minimize the pain.

Got a zit?
I swear it’s just my luck to get a zit right before a big celebration or work presentation. This is a surprisingly simple solution! Dab a bit of toothpaste on it at night and wake up the next morning with it gone.

Eating a banana?
Peel it from the bottom! You wont get any of those annoying little stringy things.

I just learned about a new life hack from PureWow yesterday. You can polish your silver jewelry by dunking it in ketchup. Now I can’t confirm this hack yet, but I have big plans this week to test it out!

What life hacks do you swear by? Share below and help a friend out!
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Starla's 4 Favorite Doggy Products

Disclosure: I received some products in exchange for my honest review. Thank you, SpotFarms!


Starlas favorite dog products


So a little less than a month ago, I tested Starla's DNA with Wisdom Panel. I've always been curious what she's mixed with, even though I knew that she was definitely Cattle Dog mix.


So the test results came in and here's what she is!

Wisdom Panel Results for Starla

I totally get Border Collie and Cattle Dog because her personality is 100% herding dog. She's super intelligent, very loyal, and high energy. I get the boxer, because her body type is pretty similar with the wide-chest, short hair, floppy ears. It's the Chow Chow that throws me for a loop. Oh well.

It's crazy to think that I adopted her almost two whole years ago! Since then, we've grown to learn each other better, learn some new tricks, and love each other even more every day. With that being said, her tastes and what she likes have changed a bit. Right now, these are Starla's four favorite dog products.

Plush Snake


Starla is super picky about the toys she plays with. She prefers all plush toys, but as a dog owner, you know how easily those get destroyed. I absolutely love this one because I can play tug-of-war with her (she doesn't even like rope toys!) without the fear of the snake breaking. It's sewing is reinforced and this is one tough toy! You can find it at Unleashed.

Starla's Favorite Dog Products

 

Boots & Barkley Doggy Bag Dispenser


Okay this one is more for me than Starla. But seriously I'm in love with this thing. I hate huge plastic dangling dispensers that bang up against your wrist while you're walking your dog. I've had many a times where I've used a cheap dog bag dispenser and when I pull at one of the dog bags, the whole roll goes flying. This dispenser is literally the best because it is soft, has velcro to wrap around your leash instead of dangling, and has a key pocket! It's also $5 so who can beat that?

Related Post:  My Favorite Dog Toys

Spot Farms Dog Treats


Spot Farms Treats for Starla

Starla is pretty spoiled with her treats and toys from Chewy each month. With that being said, she now has the biggest collection of all-natural, grain free treats. When I need some more treats you better expect that I have to find all-natural, high quality treats for her. That's why SpotFarm treats are perfect for her. They are even made with human-grade ingredients! She loves giving a paw or standing up before she gets one of these treats. Her favorite is the chicken filets! You can find it at any local pet store.

Spot Farms Treats for Starla

JW Treat Tower


Speaking of treats, what's better than an interactive toy to help them get treats? For Starla this is a lot more fun than being asked to sit and give a paw. She often noses her treat tower over to me when she wants to play with it and get some treats. It's adorable to see her playing with it.

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What are your dog's favorite things? Or what are your favorite products for your dog?


Starla's Favorite Dog Products
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Humpday Confessions - Snow Days and Valentine's Day

I confess...


that I can't believe it's already Wednesday! Being in DC, we had a "snow day" yesterday that I was able to work from home. That & President's day make for a great week!



At this rate, I better hope I get into Emory in Atlanta for grad school because I love when people don't know how to handle snow and just close everything down. Just kidding, I'll take being accepted into Boston, too. #Pleaseacceptme

I actually have already been accepted into one grad school program! Woot! Just waiting for the rest of the notifications. #Twomoreweeks



that even though I'm all about treating myself for Valentine's day, my boyfriend and I did go out. Instead of the regular dinner date, we went to Notaviva winery which was hosting a comedy show! If you're in the area you should definitely check them out. They're a small winery that is completely family run. The couple that started it actually founded the winery from the wedding gift monies. #relationshipgoals

I received the cutest package from Becky who blogs over at Disney in Your Day for our Valentine's Swap. I'm currently drinking out of this mug right now!

Valentine's Day Swap

She also spoiled me with a bunch of chocolates and a 2016 planner. It was so perfect!

I've been obsessing over Dash of Herbs recipes. I try at least one a week, not only are they simple without many recipes, they're all cooked according to Weight Watchers and are pretty healthy! I just made her Chicken Tikka yesterday. YUM!




Now onto the link-up with Plucky in Love and I!

Here are the ground rules for the link-up:


  • Each Wednesday create a post about what’s going on in your life and confess!

  • Grab the button and include it in your post or include a text link back to the link-up.

  • Link up with either me or Sarah, so we can see what you're confessing this week.

  • Comment on at least one other blogger’s post from the link up.

  • Feel free to share on social media with the hashtag #HumpdayConfessions and I'll retweet.

  • Enjoy!


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Energizing Your Morning Routine

Disclosure: I received this product for free in exchange for an honest review through BrandBacker. All opinions are my own.


Energizing your morning routine

I don't know about you guys but between long weekends, snow days, Superbowl Sundays, and pitch-dark mornings, I've been having such a hard time getting up and going in the mornings! I'm honestly more of a morning person but these past few months have really made me question that!

So I've really had to go back to the basics of what makes my morning routines successful and start fresh! Of course, there is no "right" morning routine for everyone, but these few basics are what really help me to be motivated and energized for the day ahead of me!

Start with a glass of water


Hydration is everything. I know it sounds like bull sometimes, but it really helps! You can keep a water bottle right on your bedside table, so right in the morning you can wake-up, reach over, and hydrate right away. Your skin will thank you!

Energizing your Morning Routine

Make a list of what needs to be done


I'm an avid list maker. I have lists all over my desk, my planner, in my iPhone. However, even if you're not a list maker you should make a list of things you have to do. It's so easy to think of something in the evening and then completely forget you have to do it the next morning. My typical morning list goes along the lines of: Drink water, walk the dog, take a shower, do hair and make-up, prep lunch, go to work, read the Skimm, workout, walk the dog, cook dinner, read before bed.

Unfortunately, that's the typical! It sounds daunting but it is super nice to check things off your list! Even if you always walk the dog, write-it down. Then you can scratch it off and that's one thing already accomplished for your day!

You should also add in the small things that vary day-by-day. Like mailing a gift swap to someone, making a spare key for your dog sitter, or more.

Get moving


Even though I'm not a huge fan of the morning workouts because I often feel woozy if I don't eat before and if I do eat right before I workout I feel too full to do aerobics, I still love morning activity. I never noticed how much of a difference it made until I adopted Starla. Walking her 15-30 minutes every morning gets my heart rate up a bit higher and what really does it for me is the fresh air! No coffee can wake you up like some fresh air and a walk can. (and if you do find that kind of coffee, you should send me some!)

Dog Walk

Freshen Up


I know a lot of people like showering at night because it gives them more time in the mornings to sleep in, check emails, etc. However I'm a huge proponent for showers in the morning! I love it because I feel fresh and like a brand-new person every morning! Even if you don't want to take the time to hop in the shower every morning, take the time for a good face wash. I use OZ Naturals Ocean Mineral Cleanser. This stuff is good! You barely have to use any product for it to totally cleanse your face. I started using it about a month ago and haven't had one pimple since.

OZ naturals face wash

Use some tools to help promote a good morning routine


In the lovely age of apps, there are so, so many tools that can help you!

  • Wake Alarm Clock. Allows you to change how long you snooze your alarm (iPhone snoozes in 9 minute intervals which is way too long for me!) and how you turn off your alarm.

  • Blogilates. If you don't have a doggy to walk in the mornings like I do, Cassey has some great short workouts that you can do anywhere!

  • Wunderlist. The best list app that makes it easy for you to check off tasks, categorize tasks, and share them with others too!

  • The Skimm. Wake up with the best news in short, sassy spurts.

  • Affirmation iPhone backgrounds. My iPhone's background says "Wild, Beautiful and Free." I love looking at it every morning.


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There are a lot of different things that go into making your morning into the best day! Getting back on my routine has entirely changed my attitude when I get into work. It's definitely a work in progress but it’s all about the journey to becoming the better person I strive to be.

Energizing your morning routine

Are you a morning person? How do you like to start your day?


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Best Fonts to Use for Your Blog

It's no secret that Anne from Love the Here and Now loves fonts. She's shared bunches of her favorite paid and free fonts for a while now and continues to share the love. I've definitely followed her lead and downloaded a few of my favorites that I use for my blog graphics. So today, we're teaming up to share with you our favorite fonts to use for our blogs.

For me, anything free is better. Can you believe I still don't have my credit card linked to my iTunes account? Seriously. I rarely buy anything if I can find it free elsewhere. So I've rounded up my top free fonts that I love to use as much as I can.

Alanna's Favorite Fonts

1. Sail, by Font Squirrel

2. Shorelines, by DaFont

3. Learning Curve, by Blue Vinyl Fonts

4. Italic C, by Fontsner

There are other web fonts that I use pretty frequently which you don't even need to download because they are almost always already available. These are Raleway, Playfair Display, and Satisfy. I almost always use these when I develop my images, and these fonts are all available on Canva (which I primarily use to make blog graphics!).




 

Hi there! I'm Anne and I am thrilled to be working with Alanna today. When Alanna proposed the idea of sharing my favorite 4 fonts I was excited. The panic snuck in. Asking me to choose 4 favorite fonts is tough. I am a font addict. I love finding new fonts and adding them to my ever-growing collection. I do think that everyone should have their go to fonts and use them as their main fonts. For me this is Bombshell Pro and Source Sans Pro. They are everywhere on my blog, Love the Here and Now. That doesn't stop me from loving other fonts though. Today I am sharing with you my top fonts in 4 different font styles: a script font, a mixed font, a sans serif font, and a brush script font.Font Suggestions www.lovethehereandnow.com



Cantoni Basic


I love script fonts but some tend to be overbearing and too decorative. Cantoni Basic is light and feminine with just enough of a decorative look for me.



Madina Script Font


This is the font I labeled as a mixed font. It has a script like feel but also a brushed stroke look. It is the font taking the blogging world by storm recently...you see it in tons of blog designs and graphics. I can't blame people for using it...I'm a huge fan!



Print Clearly


Every blog needs a decent sans serif font that they can use to anchor their decorative fonts. Print Clearly fits the bill nicely.



Manhattan Darling


I love brushed script fonts as they tend to look more artistic and handwritten. Manhattan Darling is my go-to when I want to use a brushed script font.

If you are a lover of fonts like me, be sure to stop by and visit my blog the 2nd Tuesday of each month as I share some of my recent font finds!

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Humpday Confessions | My Bad...

I confess that...I have no confessions this week! Sorry. I'm at a huge conference I've been preparing for two weeks now and had no time to write anything more than this. You can still link-up below! XOXO




Now onto the link-up with Plucky in Love and I!

Here are the ground rules for the link-up:


  • Each Wednesday create a post about what’s going on in your life and confess!

  • Grab the button and include it in your post or include a text link back to the link-up.

  • Link up with either me or Sarah, so we can see what you're confessing this week.

  • Comment on at least one other blogger’s post from the link up.

  • Feel free to share on social media with the hashtag #HumpdayConfessions and I'll retweet.

  • Enjoy!


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Seven Fun & Unique Winter Dates Ideas

7 Unique, Fun Date Ideas for Winter

My husband and I have been married over 8.5 years now, so we definitely have our dating schedule down. We are huge outdoors people and love being outside as much as possible, but during the winter months, that gets put on hold.

One of my fondest Valentine's Day dates we had was in 2008. This was a few months before he started getting very sick, and was one of the last times we celebrated anything while he was healthy. You can read a little bit about our long journey here.

My husband was stationed in California at the time, so we lived a few minutes from the beach. It was our first Valentine's as a married couple, so I thought it would be fun to go all out, get dressed up, and do the traditional celebration. Thanks to the marine corps, those plans were cancelled, so we just decided to take some supper to the beach and take a walk.

It ended up being the best February date ever! It was so sweet and simple, but we will remember it forever. I took this picture that evening, and it sparks so many memories each time I see it :)

Winter Date Ideas

We live back in Texas and winter can be just about anything weather wise. Warm, cold, wet, ice, snow and even tornadoes can be a part of our wintry weather. To keep our moral up during the cold months, we have a list of our favorite date ideas that we really love and enjoy. In fact, I have started enjoying parts of winter just because these dates are always so much fun.

Bonus, these are all simple, laid back, and affordable so anyone can enjoy them!



One. Diner Date


We are total diner lovers. Denny's is my all time favorite since I can get healthy swaps for breakfast too. We love going for breakfast, lunch, or dinner!

Two. Reading Date By The Fire


Since he is going through some really intense training for his law enforcement job, he spends the weekend training and studying. It has been fairly cold the last few weeks, so we have been keeping a fire going. To make sure we have a special time, we will agree to take a break from our work and meet in the living room, by the fire. Cuddle up with some blankets, and read.

This is more fun than watching TV sometimes, plus the fire is romantic! If you follow me on instagram (@alexis.roch) or snapchat :: alexisroch, you've probably seen a bunch of cozy fireplace pictures the past month :)

7 Unique and Fun Date Ideas

Three. Grocery Shopping Date


I go to the store every Friday and honestly, it gets kinda rough on my joints to carry all the bags, so I love it when he is off on Fridays. We have made it a little date now during winter. They have a little coffee shop inside our store, so we will go there and have some coffee or tea, chat for awhile. Then, tackle our list. Our grocery store is really big, so it is fun tracing through the aisles and getting everything we need.

Four. Road Trip to The Country


Road trips are another favorite date for us! Although this is a big summer activity for us, we love to take a road trip to my parents house for a little getaway. We load up Ruger and head south. It isn't a far drive, but we always take the long route through the country roads, pick up some coffee, and enjoy the scenery. My parents live in a small town and they have land, so it is always like a vacation to hang out there.

First week of 2016

Five. Downtown Date


Our town as a really cute downtown area with historical buildings, antique shopping, and eating places. In the winter, we love to head down there for lunch, then shop around the boutiques or antique stores. I always walk away with fresh foods, flowers, jams, and candles. It is fun to make an entire afternoon out of it!

Six. Movie Marathon Weekend


We are huge movie fans and it is definitely a favorite pastime of ours. When the weather is nice, we usually just watch a movie at night. In the winter, it gives us an excuse to stay in our pajamas all day and watch movies. I usually make a bunch of healthy snacks, drinks, and popcorn. We always pick a theme too like 80s movies, westerns, disaster, horror, sports movies, etc.

Seven. Cooking Date


The last favorite date we have in the winter is cooking a special meal together. Winter is the perfect time to spend hours in the kitchen without it getting to hot. In the summer, it is always over 100 degrees, so I stay out of there as much as possible.

Last weekend we decided to make one of our favorite chili recipe with some from scratch corn bread and these healthy chocolate cakes for dessert! It is fun to cook together since I am usually the one that does all the meal preparing. Ruger the bulldog got to help too so he loves cooking dates as well! (although he prefers baking days ;) )

Winter Date Ideas

I love having dates that are special for each season!

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Treat Yo' self this Valentine's Day

How to Treat Yo Self this Valentines Day

Ah Valentine's Day. The day where couples meticulously plan out an extravagant date and singles hide at home (or at the bars) indulging in their favorite guilty pleasures. Why do we do this to ourselves?

I've definitely been the "pro-Valentine's day" girl for a long time. I've wanted my boyfriend to surprise me with a fully-concocted plan, sweep me off my feet, and I would of course snap a few great pics and post them to Instagram, "Happy Valentine's, we love each other. Isn't he the best?" Now, let me count the times that's worked out for me.....oh wait, never. Not saying that I don't trust my current boyfriend to do that, it's just that I'm over it now. Why the formality? Why does the man have to do all of this? Shouldn't this be a day to celebrate your love equally?

I'm all for an excuse for a date night but let's use Valentine's day as an excuse to treat ourselves because it's a holiday all about love, and who should you love the most? That's right, yourself! So here's a couple ways you can show yourself some love this year.

treat yo self

Buy yourself something you've wanted


It it's me, I'll buy that 50mm lens that I've been dying for but unable to pull the trigger on. Go get that new Fitbit you've had your eye on or those Kendra Scott earrings. You deserve it.

Treat yourself to a spa day


What else can make you feel relaxed, happy, and looking better all at once? Go get a pedicure, facial, or massage. Seriously, Groupon has some great deals.

Order in some delivery


Whatever you do, don't go to a restaurant. We don't want to be like Miranda and Carrie. So let's use that Seamless account and order your favorite meal in.

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Have a girls/guys night


On second thought, let's be like Miranda and Carrie! If you don't have boyfriend, who cares? Make a girl date and do all the things you two love together, like delivery, Netflix, and wine. Maybe even make some awesome Galentine cards for your friends. Brittany @ The Lady Lawyer has some perfect inspiration for that! Just don't try to venture out to a restaurant.

Remember that Valentine's day is about love, not couples


Maybe give a call to your best friend, send a card or gift, or spend some time with your parents (I know they'll love you for it!) Instead of getting stuck in the couples rut, just showing someone how much you love them with a simple gesture can be one of the most rewarding things. This is exactly what I'll be doing for my best friend and my boyfriend. Maybe something along these lines?

Whether you're single or taken, I hope you enjoy Valentine's day and do something to treat yourself. 


 

Treat Yo Self this Valentine's Day
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B Too Belgian Brunch

Over MLK weekend, the boyfriend and I decided to venture out into sub-freezing weather (for whatever wild reason) to visit some museums and grab some food.

Given the fact that not many good restaurant spots are near the Smithsonian museums (that aren't extremely expensive), we opted to head up to 14th street and try out someplace new.  A place my boyfriend had gone once before for happy hour was B Too and he'd heard good things about their brunch menu. Advertised as a belgian restaurant, I was intrigued because all I knew of Belgian brunch food were waffles. Surprise, surprise. Their menu was full of waffles in addition to a wide variety of pasteries, mussles, burgers, and more.

B Too Bloody Mary

I started off with a mimosa while my boyfriend tried their B & B Mary made with bourbon instead of vodka. It was topped with bacon and celery foam. Of course I had to sneak a sip of the bloody and especially once he mixed the celery foam in. It was tasty, but half-way through the bloody mary, he decided to take a break because the whiskey was just too overpowering.

Our waitress gave an impressive introduction to the menu and with that we couldn't help but to order the homemade pastry plate. It came with a croissant, chocolate, croissant, cinnamon waffle, a muffin, and jam. I tried a taste of each and their specialty shone through. The cinnamon waffle definitely took the cake for me, while my boyfriend admired the flakiness of the croissants.

B Too Appetizer Plate

For the main course, I was drawn to the McWaffle with green eggs, smoked salmon and a small green salad with avocado.

B Too Brunch McWaffle

My boyfriend opted for the cornbread and pulled pork waffle. Mine was perfectly light, the eggs tasted great, and I loved the light salad as a side. The pulled pork was pretty heavy for a breakfast meal but the it was savory and had a perfect tinge of sweetness.

B Too Pulled Pork Waffle

Overall, I had a great experience even though they were out of Bellini's. The food was outstanding and the service was friendly and courteous. I'll definitely be visiting B Too again! Maybe for their happy hour next time.

B Too. 1324 14th St NW, Washington, D.C.
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Humpday Confessions - Men Don't Talk Like That


It's that day again, let's get to confessing!

I confess...I've had people say the weirdest things to me publicly lately. I hope my #RestingBitchFace isn't melting or something. It all started with the guy on the metro ask me "What are you?" to a homeless man asking me if I would like him to give me a bubble bath then ask for $100. #Why?



I confess...that I just started watching the Bachelor this Monday (from the beginning) and oh my lord. I got sucked into four episodes and then I just couldn't force myself to watch any more. However, Olivia's mouth is the best/worst. I can't decide if I hate it or love it.

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I confess...that I started watching the Bachelor when my boyfriend was coming over and got him sucked into it too. His reactions range from, "Why is her mouth so large." to "She looks like a scary Cameron Diaz." to "That man is so emotional. Men don't talk like that." to "He's definitely unlovable." #RealityCheck

My dog confesses...that she has been the neediest dog ever. She's been trying to escape whenever I leave for work. She sneaks really close to my ankles and then runs out the door before I can try to block her. So I've been making her sit & stay further away from the door but then she proceeds to jump up on me. I swear if she had hands she would be clinging to me. #SeparationAnxiety?



I confess...I've been listening to Bang My Head by David Guetta, Sia, and Fetty Wap on repeat. I love all three of them. It's a weird combination but it works!

I confess...I haven't worn any makeup (not even mascara) all week this week.

I confess...I really don't care. A homeless man still said I was hot and wanted to bubble bathe me.








Now onto the link-up with Plucky in Love and I!

Here are the ground rules for the link-up:


  • Each Wednesday create a post about what’s going on in your life and confess!

  • Grab the button and include it in your post or include a text link back to the link-up.

  • Link up with either me or Sarah, so we can see what you're confessing this week.

  • Comment on at least one other blogger’s post from the link up.

  • Feel free to share on social media with the hashtag #HumpdayConfessions and I'll retweet.

  • Enjoy!


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On Being Multiracial

A question that has always been asked of me since the dawn of my time has been "What are you?" This seemingly innocuous question evokes a wide range of emotions for me that has evolved over the years.

Since not many of you have met me, or maybe haven't even seen a picture of me, you might not know where this question is going. It's because of my looks. I'm multiracial. What people mean to ask me is, "What is your race?", "What is your cultural heritage?", "What's your ethnicity?" However, it's rarely phrased like that. Here's me.

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Want to take a guess at what my ethnicity is? Don't worry, you'll be wrong.

It's funny, the guesses have changed since I've grown up and because of where I lived. When I lived in Toronto, I always got Chinese or some sort of Indian. Now, that I've moved to DC, I have people come up to me and speak Spanish to me (of which I do not know more than two words). When I was younger, I used to think of the coolest, simplest answer to the question. I would say "I'm Chinese!" which is partly true, but not fully. By the time I hit middle school, I was rambling off a list of what my parents had told me and often finished my rambling to notice that the person who had asked the question had walked away, uninterested in that much information. I loved checking off all the ethnicity boxes on my standardized tests in middle school. By high school, I conjured up a sassy, "I'm Canadian," response which would usually garner the foolish, "You don't look Canadian." retort or the repetitive "No, no, I mean, what are you?"

This brings you up to the present. Literally, this post was sparked by a man on the metro just last week. As he was supposed to be handing out his Express newspapers, he took a break and asked me, "Excuse me?" so I pulled out one ear bud and responded, "Yes?" to which was followed up by, "What are you?" Depending on my range of emotions from riding the metro home with a bag of groceries and a bottle of wine weighing down on my shoulder, my responses could have ranged from, "A human," to "Well, it's frankly none-of your business." However, I was in an okay mood since the metro wasn't delayed that day and I had a bottle of wine in my bag, so I simply told him, "I'm from here." But of course, no one is happy with that answer because I don't look like I'm from here, right? So he continued to pester me with questions about my family lineage, how long have I been here, how long have my parents been here, etc. All to be responded with a vague, "Yep, I've been here a while." At the end, he became frustrated and took a stab at it himself. "North African! For sure you're North African!"

Now, a lot of people would take this negatively and call it "Racial Microaggressions" a term which I'm seeing pop-up more and more frequently in this age of being easily offended. I wouldn't call it this at all because behind it all, people are just curious. People are interested in my looks. The problem I find with it is that they feel the need to place me into a box and I don't fit in any pre-defined box. I never have. Not in Canada, not in the suburbs of Virginia, and not even in DC. My secondary issue is politeness. I've been raised to be very polite. So never would I stop someone on a train and ask them where their parents were from. I guess, maybe if you got to know me a little better I might be more open to the question. Probably, if I had to guess.

What being multiracial means to me is that I am not defined by my heritage or culture because I can create my own (At least for now...). What makes me me is me. I can pull from other traditions to make my own traditions for myself. I don't have to fit into the Jewish tradition of only marrying a Jewish man because I'm only half Jewish. I don't have to fit into the German tradition of loving beer going to Oktoberfest. Etcetera, etcetera. I am unique. There is no stereotype for me. In the end, it all boils down to the fact that I'm just a girl who loves drinking wine, is obsessed with puppies, and enjoys riding donkeys in her off-time.

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If I was a better writer, I would probably leave you hanging because my ethnicity really doesn't matter, as I just proved in my previous paragraph. However, it's just too much fun! I am part Russian, German, Portuguese, Guyanese (West Indian), Chinese, Indian, and for the icing on the cake I'm Jewish and Canadian-born. Did you guess right?

On Being Multiracial

P.S. I love this picture so much. I had such a hard time deciding what should be my header image for this post. I love it because bloggers love pineapples, duh. And the fact that I now think of the pineapple as a metaphor to the multicultural, multiracial person. Rock on you other pineapples in the sand at the beach!
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